Hey Bo, I read your sitch. I understand it's hard with the trust. I don't think you are dealing with a WW so if you want to treat it as WAS, that may help to look at it under a different light. Even with WW, just my opinion, if you focus on them, anything can be wasted energy. WW,WAS,MLC, w/e, our actions should be the same. Do for you and the kids, love your W and give her some space. My W when she had our second one was slow in coming back around. Give your W some time. Its early. Keep the workout going, be there for the kids, and GAL.
I do deserve someone who truly wants me. Have to be patient and see how this all plays out.
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current