I can see why people don't want to be with their WAS anymore just from the distrust alone.
Hey Adam,
I know my sitch is different from yours, and I know mine is not as dire as others’ here (at least not yet), but I find myself struggling with wanting to be with W, and not totally trusting her (always wondering if / when she will leave, is there someone else, how much trust can I put into having a future with her, etc.)
The thought has crossed my mind (and reading it here on the forums has helped my internalize it better), that I want / deserve someone who truly wants to be with me.