Originally Posted by Adam04


I can see why people don't want to be with their WAS anymore just from the distrust alone.



Hey Adam,

I know my sitch is different from yours, and I know mine is not as dire as others’ here (at least not yet), but I find myself struggling with wanting to be with W, and not totally trusting her (always wondering if / when she will leave, is there someone else, how much trust can I put into having a future with her, etc.)

The thought has crossed my mind (and reading it here on the forums has helped my internalize it better), that I want / deserve someone who truly wants to be with me.

And you deserve the same.


M: 36
W: 30
T: 9
M: 7

S6 (OS)
S7mo (YS)

ILYBINILWY BD: Feb. ‘18

W Wants S / D BD: 1/4/19

H / W still in-house

D papers from W: 3/14/19