Yep ignore the holy hell out of her. That is what I am doing. My WW is filling the void I left my detaching with negative. Only negative. So I will just go full NC. I stay away. Even when I try and validate she tries to say I am being mean.

WW was upstairs speaking to me while I was downstairs. WW asked me something about S11's homework. I responded and when I did I looked up and spoke louder since, you know, she was on the second floor! Instead of just continuing the conversation WW said "You don't have to raise your voice at me!" I try to validate and she just follows with another comment. Not about her feelings but complaining. I am trying to hard to add "That sounds frustrating" to my vocab.


M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019