For a long time I would give W a pass for her actions and choices under the excuse it was lashing out in grieving the loss of her mother....I felt I was getting scapegoated.

No more...

W is a full blown narcissist.....thru out all sorts of lies, deception, and blame onto me at time of BD. I fell hook, line, and sinker for it.

I responded and improved in all facets of my life...which only further enraged W.

Now I will call her out on her $hit...and not excuse her behavior.

She lives and will deal with the actions, choices, and decisions. If not careful, may cost her time with only S.


Me - 38 W-37
S6
M 10 years T 13yrs
BD 3/18
W moves out 4/18
W files 7/18

Never waste a good crisis