For a long time I would give W a pass for her actions and choices under the excuse it was lashing out in grieving the loss of her mother....I felt I was getting scapegoated.
No more...
W is a full blown narcissist.....thru out all sorts of lies, deception, and blame onto me at time of BD. I fell hook, line, and sinker for it.
I responded and improved in all facets of my life...which only further enraged W.
Now I will call her out on her $hit...and not excuse her behavior.
She lives and will deal with the actions, choices, and decisions. If not careful, may cost her time with only S.
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18