New chapter....with or without her

[EZdozit]

So it’s been 24 hours since therapy session and I can’t lie some of the things w said haven’t been troubling....but know it’s just proof she’s still full WW and in her own fog.

One of the statements w said to therapist as to why she was pursuing D was that she had once broken up with me prior to us getting MR...yet choose to “look past” her concerns at that time and got “fooled” in getting back together with me. Not only back together, but then married....for 10 years. She completely brushed over entire 10 yr MR claiming she was “fooled”...WTF??

Another card W thru out was hinted that I once physically abused her....which is absolutely garbage and BS. I hate that she has resorted to this...as I know once a women in todays society claims this...it’s up to men to prove their innocence. It’s a disgrace to me. I owned my past issues with anxiety and depression to therapist, and also said what I’ve done to treat those symptoms.

I believe therapist was able to quickly determine she was full of $hit...

I know believe nothing she says/half what they do.

It just confirmed to me that she no longer has any legitimate reason for D...other then her self serving, self righteousness, and stubbornness to not appear that she is making a mistake. Ultimately she will be the a$$hole either way...and will have that on her conscious.

I have a hearing scheduled Jan 2nd...and feeling all sorts of emotions coming over me due to that, also with Xmas and the fact I won’t have S wish me...just [censored]. I will stay centered...

Any thoughts from board?

I will combat any further bogus claims W makes...I will stand up for my S and my best interests. I will face a narcissist straight up and believe she will not come out ahead in the end.