I got off of work and went straight to the gym. I have plans tonight with a friend at 8. So I get home and WW is in S11s room cleaning.

No dinner cooked. WW used to cook dinner every night. She is a great cook. S11 says he is hungry. WW cooked spaghetti last night. But I stayed gone all night as I have been.

WW asks why I am feeding s11 spaghetti. I said he is hungry. WW said she had planned to cook again but nobody is every home and I never come home so she doesnt see what the point is.

I validated her efforts. I do like to eat at home and if she wants to cook I will eat honestly. I just said I'm home now. WW said you never answer your texts so theres no point in asking you if you're going to be home.

Yes it's a temp check. However I do like eating.

Is it ok if I tell WW that she can text if I'll be home after work to see if she has to cook?


M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019