So the net result is that our lives start being great, we’re free of their BS, and they end up being the fools? Strange though considering how very very happy she seems to think she’ll be without me... maybe we’ll both be better off.
B,
Throughout this hell that you have been dealing with, look back on what you have accomplished, and ask yourself:
"Am I working on being TRULY happier? Have I had those moments of TRUE happiness? Who cares what anyone else thinks?"
I am going to say yes. Why? Because we are similar in our mindset, feelings, and actions. I know I have my genuinely happy moments in between moments of chaos and sadness. And those moments feel great. There is no "yeah, but" feeling. It's just..."yeah".
You have those moments as well. Your GAL stuff you're doing. The fish sandwich experience. Moments of TRUE happiness.
Keep detaching, B. Your mindset should be:
She does not give a damn about your feelings. Anything that gives off the impression otherwise should ALWAYS be a red flag and a hidden motive behind it. ALWAYS.
TRUST NOTHING FROM HER.
You WILL be better off, whether it's with or without her. Period.
