I am sorry this is happening. Wow, what a mess. That is quite a long list of accusations by her! She listed more than once that you were physically abusive. I also noticed that you stated twice that you have "P-A tendencies." I do not know what that even stands for. Is this what you are referring to, being physically abusive? And if so, does she have any police records or prior restraining orders against you? Some of that may be over our heads on how to advise you here on the boards. I am afraid you are going to need a good L to protect yourself before interacting with her at all. Please be careful being alone with her or what you say/text/email with her. Keep posting! This may just be the begning of a long and difficult journey.

Blu

“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela