Had a very tough day today. Was able to get into a children’s play therapist before Christmas to address S cry for help. Therapist required initial session with W and I first to get a picture of our story and where we are currently at, cause for D, etc.
Therapist asked some very pointed questions in which I was very honest. He asked if I still loved my W and if there was anything he could do to help us work on marriage. I acknowledged that I did despite all the garbage she’s done and continues to do. I then said I was just focused on my own path and being the best father and version of myself I could be. Other questions uncovered a lot of things that W and I have not addressed, and she won’t entertain right now.
Therapist then asked W same questions and typical ILYBNILWY and other std. BS answers about her happiness. Therapist was able to sniff out the BS fairly quickly when he asked what W role was in diminishing MR...she claimed she had no involvement or culpability.
During session, there were responses I provided that triggered W but she was shut down from responding. Same happened to me when W told blantant lies and I couldn’t defend myself.
I left session at peace, but won’t lie that it frustrated me about how she was so flippant at tearing our family up and appears to have no clue as to the wreckage she has left in her wake.
It’s been 9 months since BD...and I’m completely comfortable in my own skin. I have truly become AMOAFWL...and I believe carma will bite W in the face at some point. Her continued lies and character assasination she’s done to me won’t deter my path.
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18
