had a buddy come back from Iraq and ran into the exact same deal.
get legal representation front and center. as Stander says your W will be in for a rude awakening when her "plan" hits the law. the WW's have as much fantasy with the law as they do with their affair partners.
you must stay centered, take care of yourself and give no fuel to her fire.
as I said up front, thank you for your service. it takes a special kind of cruel WW to pull S88T like this over Christmas. please know you have a ton of support from all of us on here.
