For your consults:

Bring Pen and notepad and take notes.
Draw up a list of questions before hand so you can get answers.

When can I see my kids?

Is your state a fault / no fault state?

Is your state equal equity?


Last questions to ask L:

How much is the Retainer. How much of the process will this cover?

(Be prepared for the retainer to be drained before this is over and you will need another big chunk of money)
Lawyers are in this to make money.

Both lawyers will know how much "Disposable" money your family has and can argue it all away. Then, when it is gone, decide "We should settle".


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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