Stay calm man. Trust the lawyer. Seems like you need a pitbull lawyer. Get character reference letters from all of your officers/friends/families etc. See if you can go to see a counselor/psychologist to give you a clean bill of health. There is no way any of the "beating" stuff will fly. You are out of the country, not possible.
That filing is so ridiculous that I bet any judge worth his pay would toss out most of those requests. A good L will help you a long way. I am so sorry.
I am glad my WW hasnt gone nuts on me. My WW actually got an L and was going to file. However, I broke DB rules and talked to her, not about R, but asking her why she suddenly thinks I am her enemy. I was able to get her to calm down and nothing has come from it.
However, I do expect paperwork eventually. I told WW that if she wants to file we can go to mediation. If she files I will file a request for mediation.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019