Advice for newcomer pre- bomb drop.

[Bern19]

Yeah, after reading my post and taking 10 minutes to think about it, I shouldn’t have said anything. I had a few of my boundaries defined at our previous MC session where I clearly said I won’t stay with someone that lies to me, and I won’t share her with him in anyway. I was ready to enforce those two weeks ago. Now I look at the calendar and realize that if she won’t leave, I’ll have to... do I really want to leave my home 4 days before Christmas? Absolutely not. So she’s been blowing up my phone with bug long texts about how she’s sorry, but I did this or I did that and that’s what led her down this road. I was going to ignore her, but finally replied that I’ll talk to her again after Christmas. At that point one of us will need to clear out to get some space.