I was involved in a highly contested custody battle. I knew what was important and have 50/50 parenting.



1) Stay calm.
2) Find the best lawyer.
3) Stay calm.
4) Let the lawyers do the arguing.
5) Stay calm.
6) Share everything with your lawyer. Especially anything that could be perceived as "Bad"
7) Sign up for parenting classes.
8) Find a Fathers Support group
9) Keep focused on personal growth.

Ask as many questions here as you can.

You can handle this.




"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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