Can you forgive her? You expressed some doubt about that in earlier posts. That's a very important question you have to answer.
I am kind of amazed at the parallels between Steve85 and you. You both did the work, and both Ws changed their minds and decided to work on the marriage, and now, you're both kind of like "Eh. I can take it or leave it." I hope it's as great a place to be as I imagine.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17