LBS dealing with WW (part 6)

[Joe2017]

Well, subservient won't last. Eventually you two need to forgive each other. You don't want anyone feeling like a whipped dog.

I hope you keep going slow and really see things for what they are.

I don't want her feeling like a whipped dog. But she should, so I am going to let her. I'm certainly not going to abuse her or the situation. I feel like this is part of her working through her issues. One of my goals is to lessen the hurt in our relationship, so I am not mentioning the A unless there is an actual practical reason to do so. We have talked about that enough, although I will have to talk about it here and there.

No sense in beating a dead horse.

As far as subservience goes, it's new, and it's intriguing me. Submitting to me was something that was severely lacking in our first R. I had a bit of a NGS going on, and she had control issues. In hindsight, we both should have known that it was not going to work out with that dynamic. I'm not a "red pill" kinda guy but I see some value in it.