So, it’s 4 days till Christmas, do I move out or wait till after the holiday? I want some space, but I have two kids that are young enough to still bank on Christmas as a special time of year. My youngest still believes in Santa... I don’t know what to do... any advice?
Bern19,
Good job confronting the OM.
I don't have specific advice for you, but I don't think you should be the spouse that has to move out. Your wife is the cheater, she should move out. I think I'd consider gently and lovingly pushing her out the door. A dose of reality for her isn't a bad thing.
