LB55,

First off take a breath and stay calm. Don't panic and plan your next actions.

You have a certain amount of time to respond to being served. Did she file a domestic violence order? There are some military guys online who have support groups for dealing with sitch like yours.. Seek them out. I know one guy who posts YouTube vids, but he is very much not in accordance to DB so I don't think posting here would be appropriate. Get a lawyer ASAP. Also you have protections as a soldier, the SCRA has divorce protections I believe. Unfortunately, your task now over the holidays is going to be getting squared away with your sitch. I will say it again, contact a lawyer asap.

Last edited by Twofeet; 12/21/18 04:22 PM.

H(37) W(35)
D8, D5, S3
T20, M13
BD 8/31/18
EA Discovered 9/13/18
Mediation 10/3/18
W files for D 10/12/18
W moves out 11/10/18
EA confirmed 12/25/18
D Final 1/10/19