First off take a breath and stay calm. Don't panic and plan your next actions.
You have a certain amount of time to respond to being served. Did she file a domestic violence order? There are some military guys online who have support groups for dealing with sitch like yours.. Seek them out. I know one guy who posts YouTube vids, but he is very much not in accordance to DB so I don't think posting here would be appropriate. Get a lawyer ASAP. Also you have protections as a soldier, the SCRA has divorce protections I believe. Unfortunately, your task now over the holidays is going to be getting squared away with your sitch. I will say it again, contact a lawyer asap.
Last edited by Twofeet; 12/21/1804:22 PM.
H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19