Well that went poorly. Showed up for my wife to pick me up and got served divorce papers by a foot old man. She is requesting 2 hours per week of supervised visitation, that she needs $6000 out of my $7500 check, froze all our assets, 42 pages of lies about me, I beat her, beat the kids, I am drunk 7 days a week, I engage in risky activities that endanger the kids(doesn't say what), that I have denied her healthcare for years(military spouses get free healthcare anytime they want), that she is afraid of physical harm so I cannot see her or the kids or go near my house. I have 7 days before the restraining order hearing. No oral testimony will be allowed, and I must provide written proof of the false allegations. Needless to say it is hard finding a lawyer over a 4 day Christmas weekend. I am so upset. She is taking my kids and there is little I can do right now. If you have any advice it would be appreciated. Please don't tell me to get a life right now.
Me40; W38; S12; D9 BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18 D Final 7/2020 Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.