This is the time of year that is extremely difficult. No way around that fact.
So, I just wanted to share a few thoughts.
Your spouse will act in one of two ways. They will either seem as if they are moving closer or they will seem to be running faster away.
Though your inclination will initially be to try and hang onto to them...don't do it.
Stay on your path.
You see, during the holidays, they may take a pause to reflect. And sometimes they may, for a moment, get scared. They may be thinking they are making a mistake.
They may say some things or do some things that give you pause. They will feel you out...see where you are at. Or they will become even more steadfast in their decision.
Doesnt matter...Stay on your path.
Trust me, they are watching. But you don't care because you are going to make the most of this holiday season for you and yours. You are going to show strength and honor and joy.
The reason is...because you are on an amazing journey of self discovery. You have been given this wonderful opportunity for change and growth.
So, leave them to their ghosts and issues and all the rest.
