1. Taking care of your children, focusing on them and having a great Christmas with them, make that front and center for you. That is straight line love right there. Make as many wonderful memories as you can.
2. In laws...parents will always try to support their children even if they do not necessarily agree with their decisions. Work hard to prevent yourself from projecting your feelings about your WW onto your in-laws. They may be as hurt by what your WW is doing as you are. Keeping your sitch out conversation with them is important. Sounds like you did a great job with that interaction.
3. Keep on detaching. We can't understand how/what/why from WW, so just keep letting it roll off of you.
4. You sound more centered. Your "boat" ain't rocking way back and forth as it was just a short time ago. Keep going.
