It just shocks me, that she is able to run around inviting for christmas and still knowing that she is going with him in less than a week from now - disgusting behavior.
Why is that shocking to you? She has been doing it for months.
How can we help you?
All your posts are about the terrible things shes doing to you and you responding with "thank you" or "no thank you".
What are your goals for 2019? What are your immediate plans to get out of this toxic situation?