Divorce inevitable

[peacetoday]

when my H first entered MLC and I realized it
I read everything under the sun about it

I also sought out a lott of support through 12 step groups and therapy to heal

I choose to practice being there for him
listening and validating and being really there as I felt I owed that to him and myself-

for me this worked because it got me through the crises
I stayed in therapy the full time and I grieved and had a safe place to vent and cry-

at some point I did get to forgiveness-
Today I still wish him the best and hope he is happy
I kept affirming I wish him the very best and his X OW (wife)

I look back and I am grateful
I feel no anger anymore

so my point is go through the stages of your grief, ,anger is one of them

continue to seek therapy, church-gym whatever helps and gives relief of pain

read and understand she is sick..
practice being there for her
Train your mind to forgive her-to wish her well- tFeel the anger and then practice replacing all negative thoughts and let go of the anger-
over and again
listen to Joel Olsteen

If she had cancer, you would help her-right
be your best--doors will open in your favor and all will eventually resolve for the best