Also wondering if I should go completely dark, ignore questions too or just NC with brief responses to questions.
Keep it all business, brother. You are not there to comfort her, support her, or do any of that garbage. She does not deserve you because she is not owning up to her screw-ups. You deserve to be treated better!
Don't fall for her traps. She has to own her crap. Anything short of a confession, humility, genuine remorse, and a TRUE willingness to work on the marriage is just BS.
