Milestones of Moving On (?)

[TJT]

Thanks DejaVu. I think what I am getting at is that even if I don't make it a confrontation, he is good at making things like that seem ... not like a confrontation, but you know, an annoyance... on his back, not giving him a chance, like he can't do anything right. It's one of those things I know isn't true and shouldn't be that way, but if that's how he is perceiving it, what am I supposed to do!

Also, I am likely going to post a barrage of updates in the next few hours. I just got back from the in laws' house and I don't know whyyyyyy I thought that was a good idea. I mean I'm glad I did it but I just got more info and now I'm more upset and confused and slightly scared also. I will explain why in my next post but just wanted to respond to Deja here first before I start letting it all out.