Not sure if my W noticed I had looked at vision boards on the net and YouTubebut she signed the kids up to do a visionboard activity in town this evening and asked if I wanted to go too. Anyway I did go. We each made one. They were fairly basic as we used whatever we found in magazines etc provided. Still a good activity.

Family was one of the key components on my W's board!! I didn't reaskher how she see's the family going forward without being a couple nor did I remind her that as I said recently our situation isn't the example I want for our sons. Anyway family figured on my board too.

SBJ. I will update you on my vision board, the more elaborate and specific one that I will make. I will post it somewhere in the house (probably gym or garage) so I will not picture all my DB goals! though was wondering about if karma sutra being appropriate grin

Thanks for your reply and support. I wish you well with your goals too. Happy Christmas
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R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together