Fair enough. I should remember that she doesn’t really ‘need’ me as a husband—rather, I’m a glorified roommate, and act accordingly.
Exactly! And that is NOT AT ALL fair to you, it's a horrible way to treat someone you swore to love honor and cherish, right? But here we are. You just have to remember who/ what you are dealing with right now, it's not your formerly loving and loyal wife. It's like a stranger moved in.
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Also fair. If she asks or complains, I’ll just say ‘okay, I’ll cancel the reservations.’ Boom, be done.
Precisely. And just be neutral about it, you don't want it to sound mean/ vindictive or passive/aggressive. You want it to sound like you really don't care one way or the other.
