Brave Little Gerda, So Chilled She Could Not Speak

[marina7]

Gerda,

From mom to mom,

We must let our children see for themselves.
And all we can do is hold our kids when our Mlcers
F there head up.

Our story is so similar from Monsters MLCers
our kids. Is a horrible nightmare I would never want
this pain for anyone.

Unfortunately we got to let our kids see for themselves
Kids are not kids forever your S will grow up to be a Man
oneday and remember who stood by him.

This weekend a incident happen that my s9 is so depress
the teacher even called me and her words s9 is not himself is
Concerning. I replied yes I know I unfortunately can't ask questions
Why, what happened or other questions when going through a custody
battle.

S9 had beautiful long hair on the top. The New style
Man Bun. W always hated boys with long hair. So this
weekend W told s9 cut your hair. While s10 was getting a
haircut. W proceed to praise s10 how handsome he looks
S9 said ok just a little bang. Guess what in Spanish W tells barber
something am guessing cut it all off. And boom s9 hair gone.

When I pick s9 up. His head was down. I seen the fear
I ask what happened W quickly said he ask for it. I was in all
Shock but I also know W wants a reaction. Yes the old me would have
Yeld. I just said lets go. But inside I was boiling. S9 starts crying
I look ugly. I hate my life. I can see W is mentally breaking him down.

It scares me that s9 could hurt himself he has before said he wants
to die.

And unfortunately the child system [censored]. I try to explain
to GAL and lawyers I look like am the over barring parent.

Is sadden me that the doctors or lawyers don't see how MLCERS
could devastate our kids life. Without us LBS looking crazy.

All we can do is keep getting our kids support from
Therapist, kids divorce groups, church and school involvement.

My heart are with you Gerda, as I know all we doing is protecting
our kids.

I am here to vent. Wish I knew everyone social media so we can connect
Face to face.

Remember One day at a time.