Did,

I'm the same way. When my phone rings or buzzes with a text, I'm secretly hoping it's her. Are you getting your W a Christmas present, did I read that right?

If your W brings up that you need to tell your W what you're getting your daughter for Christmas, just tell her you will handle your gifts and she can handle hers. Say no more. It's not her place to tell you what to do here.

Originally Posted by Did
Want to text her saying I feel bad about forgetting our anniversary.
I hope you didn't. It's not like your W wanted to be around you for it anyways.

Originally Posted by Did
Again I feel worse being around her. I’m not going to put myself in these situations anymore. Anyway feeling pretty low. Her words affect me too much and I can’t believe what she says. I know I know
I'm the same way, that's why I don't talk to her. What's there for us to talk about if they aren't committed to the MR? I mean that for your sitch and my sitch.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.