It makes me both sad and angry that you're already talking about this woman - this fellow human being - in such a disrespectful way as this.
If I had been out on a couple of dates with a guy, with the aim of something longer term, then slept with him, and found out that he'd said he wasn't 'grossed out' by my body, and that he'd been impressive (or whatever) in bed, I honestly wouldn't even bother calling him back. I'd just cut him as dead as dead can be and move right on with my life.
Ages ago, about 2 odd years ago now (about a month before I met my partner) I went out on a date with someone who thought they were God's gift. Handsome and good looking? Yes, he was. And he really obviously wanted to sleep with me. But good heavens above, he was boring as hell...so, so full of himself, and so shallow with it. I couldn't wait to get away. We had a couple of drinks and that was it. I feel like I had a lucky escape that evening.
It's been a good while since I've been this hacked off at someone online.
If it's mindless shagging you're after, with some hot chick with blonde hair and false knockers, then fair enough. Just go after that, but at least be above board about it.
If it's an R you're after, then also fair enough. Just please don't talk so disrespectfully about the person you hope to be in an R with.
