Here is the convo I had with my W when she was hard core pushing D...now maybe she does want it but honestly why should you invest any work in it.

I said "get a separation agreement together and I will have my lawyer look at it". Now if everything is as you want it mediation will be the fastest and cheapest way to go but if you see something you don't like best to have counsel look at it.

Remember this though, be prepared if she follows through, D might be the outcome and you have to prepare yourself mentally that she will follow through. But by no means help her with the leg work.


H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019