13 is such a tough age- He has you and a good therapist- I know it is hard to see them hurt- and in pain sounds like he is working through his grief process-
What seemed to helped my situation when H left D was 11 Girls are different- but she was ok letting go- and having me I would sit on the edge of her bed and just talk/listen to her everynight-
today we walk everyday and we talk for 30-45 minutes
MY s was 5 when H left- So it was different I don't think my S really had time to bond with him
I know it is hard to sometimes trust and have the faith especially when we go through situations that seem difficult with no real solution or answers- and watching our kids struggle is so painful to see- sometimes we just have trust to let go- trust you will know-trust he is ok pray and meditate and you will be guided
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
