HI

Try to keep the focus on you

The process takes a long time

2 years is a good mark because you can focus on you for that time
You can grieve the old R because it is done-
you can begin to notice the changes you want to make in yourself
and create a new life- new hobbies-maybe connecting with a new or old friend
doing things that make you happy, church, volunteering
sports, whatever is your thing-

during this time- you can watch her- her choices- her changes her actions-
you will know more later
Many will not make it though MLC without some devastating changes
but usually the LBS will land on their feet

watch your finances and credit cards..
do you have kids?

married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow