Part of my problem is my LDH is not a very "cuddly" person either. He is hyper,skinny and subject to skin allergies. This means when we're not having sex, the only "touch" I get is of the variety they could show on TV in the 1950s.
He claims to be allergic to most varieties of oils/lubricants so I've given up on that issue.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
