Smh at you all. We had sex, I got my test results back and I am not married. I did not hump and dump her or violate any of her boundaries. We started messing around and over the course of 5 hours she gave the all clear sign. I will say she was very surprised at my skills and early on during our session she had to stop a couple of times because she was loosing her mind. I will say though that the actual sex part was anti climatic since we had been messing around for hours. When she gave the all clear sign I immediately was not ready to go if you know what I mean so I had to take 5 min to recalibrate. I suppose it had something to do with going at it for 5 hours I guess or I hope. Maybe I was distracted as well.
Anyway the girlfriend talk did not come up but she does know that I am not talking to anyone else. I also don’t have a problem dating her exclusively either however I am not ready to get married.
She is really cool, fun, down to earth, happy, energetic which is all very attractive to me. A great fuching smile, a good kisser, very attentive, and I am still learning the deeper aspects of her. I did not find myself being grossed out by her body (she is more hour glass) or shying away from it either. I am not perfect also. In the moment of having sex I was not thinking about my X however it was different to be with someone that is totally into you. It was actually kind of distracting as sex with the X became very transactional. I was comfortable though not wierded out and the sex was good.
I don’t really no what else to say. She will be out of town on vacation for next 10 days or so. I will see her when she gets back.
