Validation is for her feelings. Not for the stories she’s telling. You don’t need to reply to those accusations. Stay away from her world. You need to stay on a higher level.
Keep DB ST. Protect yourself doing that. Detach and don’t give a f@ck!
Stay strong man! I know it’s hard but you have the strength.
Exactly. I validated her feelings. The stories I said I don't agree. She literally texted me saying "If you loved me you would protect me" aka don't tell the kids, don't tell anyone. I told her I would not lie for her, protect her or support her while she is actively disrespecting me.
Yes its hard. It seems like she wants to move out. I told her what i need to move out. If she moves out instead thats fine.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019
