If I had a $1 for every time my WW said this isn't about the OM. It is the biggest issue for us right now and there is no explaining that to them.
Exactly. I just got finished getting a return tirade in text from the WW about how this is all my fault again. I have to keep my phone on so I just validated in text and thats it. She moved on to Christmas gifting again. I again told her that there is no justification in what she is doing and I dont deserve this and our family deserves better and she said "I didnt say you deserve this". Uh, yeah you just did in the ten messages you sent previously about how our marriage was all horrible.
So yeah, I need to DB and DB and DB and not let my emotions get the best of me because she just gets hyper defensive.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019
