-you're W is in a PA w/OM and you are thinking of what to get her for Christmas? -just because 90% of folks may get divorced does not necessarily mean they stay that way -NO ONE has accurate statistics on that stuff anyway, let it go -the only progress you can truly measure is your own -the truth (no matter what it is, nor matter how much we fight it) is always the truth. at some point we each have to reach acceptance of it. -you and D4 having the house to yourself tonight, baking brownnies and dinner...THAT is good stuff right there! :-)