Kate11,
Welcome to LBS world.

I know is not something you want or us here
Especially during the holidays.

I can tell you one thing that was told to me
A year from now you will be better emotionally

Last year I put a Christmas tree last minute for
My Trios. But this year I decorated outside
And we decorated tree.

I won't say it will be 100% great but you be better than
This year.

Just listen to all the ones that been here for years.
They will give you some great advice.

Just remember is not your fault
There's nothing you could have done

Just protect yourself financially and mentally
Because MLCers will make you feel like your
going crazy. And trust me your not.

We are here. And remember

One day at a time.

And is ok to cry, yell, be sad is
ok to have all these feelings.

Happy Holidays


At BD
Lesbian marriage
Me39,W36
S9,D9,S8 adopted all three
Together almost 10yrs
Bomb Drop - April 2017
W movedout - May,2017
OW June,2017
Currently 2018
Me40, W38
S10,D10,S9