Quote: Once he feels like he's crossed the threshhold, it isn't needed. Did I get that right?
Maybe that means a little time sitting on the couch listening to music and snuggling first would help him adapt to the changing temperature.
We actually spend much of our time together talking...about the kids, the news, whatever. If he gets even an inkling that I want to take it farther than "just talking" he becomes Mr. Chatterbox. It's almost like if he thinks I am thinking about sex, he does everything he can to prevent that from happening...? (Although, now he's reading SSM and says he will not do this anymore, but I am too scared to try him out.)
