I hop into bed, say ‘goodnight.’ W: Are you going to help, or are you that tired that you just need to go straight to bed.
Bo, that was a very passive/aggressive comment on her part and you should not have rewarded it with compliance. Keep in mind you've been fired as husband, and you sure as hell aren't her maid. I would not have even dignified that with a response, just ignore her. If she wants to escalate it into a fight then calmly tell her you're not interested in fighting and you suggest she take her clothes into the other room to fold them.
One thing LBS's with NGS need to learn is to quit letting their WAS walk all over them. They'll push the boundaries in all ways large and small and you can't let them get away with ANY of it. She tested you and you blew it. Learn from it and make corrections moving forward.
