I am really sorry that you are here but you have come to the right place.
I think you should request to have your post moved to the new comers board as there is more traffic over there. Everyone in the beginning believes their spouse is going through MLC.
Based on your post it is most likely your husband is having an affair. Most likely with the someone he works out with hence the quote "we have nothing in common".
MC is a waste of time when one of the parties is in an affair. You can attend MC down the road if and when he comes around.
The only thing you can do is work on yourself right now and become the best Kate you can be.
