Originally Posted by neffer
Well, you can help her like helping one of your kids. And leave it there. Good for not escalating the situation.

Keep giving her time and space. And use that time and space for your own journey: getting into amoafwl.

Stay strong there B!


Fair enough.

What baffles me is she would pop off about a ‘break’ or S (granted, it’s been about 2 months since she last brought up potential ‘break’ or S, but....) but then she wants / needs my help. It’s rough doing things on my own!

So which is it? I know there is a diff between wanting help and wanting ME, but this is part of the package deal.


M: 36
W: 30
T: 9
M: 7

S6 (OS)
S7mo (YS)

ILYBINILWY BD: Feb. ‘18

W Wants S / D BD: 1/4/19

H / W still in-house

D papers from W: 3/14/19