Originally Posted by pain18
I wish I was. I moved from there years ago. I still have family in New Mexico. I visit from time to time. I'll let you know if I head down.

I wouldn't move out until you get a hold of a lawyer. But I will say the sooner you distance yourself physically, the sooner you can begin the healing process.

Start coming up with excuses to be out of the house. Say you have to work late, or hanging out with friends, or some other thing. Kids are wonderful and all but they have their own lives they need to live.

Depending how your R is with your mom, I'd say you should definitely take shelter there.

Any excuse to GAL. Any excuse to not be in WW's vicinity.




I have been out of the house a lot besides a few days. But I need to do it more. I already spoke with several L's. It really doesnt matter what I do. 50/50 assets here in NM. The custody is what matters and my WW seems to not be throwing that in my face as a threat at all. WW knows the kids are hurting badly and that they are very upset at her for this.

The few talks we have had about custody is 50/50 oriented. Of course I would like them more than that, but I don't want to fight.


M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019