In my old thread I posted that I asked my H what would happiness look like for him, since he says he’s unhappy. His answer was:
*he would do things he enjoys *he would go fishing *he would go hunting *he would take a long ride to another state on a whim *he would join a bowling league *he would take the kids camping (but then he said he missed that opportunity because they are now older) *he would build something
Can anyone answer this question for me...why isn’t he currently doing any of these things? No one is stopping him. If doing these things is what he says would make him happy, why isn’t he doing them? Like some of these are pretty simple things.
I’ve been GAL and he just sits at home. He goes to work and comes home. That’s it. It’s just so confusing. Like on the weeken buddy, why not go bowling or something?
This to me screams of depression. It's WANTING to WANT to do things, but not actually wanting to do them.
