I would say ‘common chores,’ but it is HER laundry. If it was all of our laundry, then sure.

I often take YS when I get home because I need / want Baby Time. Depending on the day, either cooks and / or does dishes.

But yes, no R talks, no expectations, no pressure for sex (or anything, really).

I also tried validating, but it was late, I was tired, and I’m not great in the moment emotionally (unless until I get more reps). I guess for me the victory was not escalating and firing back ‘well when you say THAT that’s what p***es me off!’

M: 36
W: 30
T: 9
M: 7

S6 (OS)
S7mo (YS)

ILYBINILWY BD: Feb. ‘18

W Wants S / D BD: 1/4/19

H / W still in-house

D papers from W: 3/14/19