You;ll know better than I. Look at the detachment thread, and then see if her behavior matches. If not, disengaging.
Maybe she is? I also know earlier she talked about how she has lost her sense of self because of the pregnancy, as well as the avenue of career change.
For me, the struggle has been threading the needle between detaching and disengaging on my end. I’ve been trying to give her the emotional and physical space she needs, and I’ve been pouring my energy into the kids around the house. They get the demonstratively expressed love and affection.
