If I didn’t know any better, I’d say W is detaching, too—she’s taking on some more of household duties, and is more into doing things for herself. Doesn’t really ask me about my day. But then again, shouldn’t really have any expectations about her towards me.
Be careful with equating detachment with disengagement. It is NOT the same. WASs typical disengage, not detach. Read the detachment thread again. Loving detachment should NEVER look like disengagement.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018