It's confusing to you because you listen to his words.
I thought that list was ridiculous when I first read it because he could definitely do all those things while still married to you.
I will give you my opinion. He wants to run around with other women. He likes the excitement of it. He wants you to be waiting for him when the excitement runs out and he crashes and burns.
You may be 100 percent correct! However, I won’t be sitting around waiting on him after he runs around with other women.
For now he’s just going to work and coming straight home. He stays in the house during the weekends. We did shop for Christmas together last weekend. So he was out and about.
He says he needs to work on his issues and he says he’s committed to doing so. He’s been going to therapy, which I’m actually shocked about. He’s never been a fan of therapy. But he seems to like his therapist and continues to go.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
