Why don't you make a 2019 vision board but NO relationship stuff? I might do that.
That's a good idea. I thought about doing something similar but it was actually more along the lines of the different possibilities of futures I could have - e.g. what a dating future could look like, a future where I meet someone new for a long-term relationship, a future without anyone, etc. That way I can at least mentally be aware of all the scenarios that might manifest. But focusing on just the last one makes sense since that's obviously where I'm at right now.
Originally Posted by Yail
Don't apologize to them. Too close to being interpreted as a round-about R-talk or pursuit. It puts them in the role of MIL/FIL and not "nice people I had tea with".
This is a good point now that you say it that way. I guess it's the same thing with them - show them through my actions if I care. I don't need to make it a "thing". Thanks.
H:39 W:30 M:4 T:9
05/2018: H says "ILYBNILWY", BD 07/2018: Discovered A, confronted 09/2018: PA + other details emerge; H moved out 12/2018: I filed 03/2019: Divorce finalized
